Why It’s Worth Examining Your Life

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The Search for Meaning

“The unexamined life is not worth living.” — Socrates

I want you to consider whether your choices are devoid of conscious intent?

Self-awareness is a key attribute humans possess, which distinguishes us from the animal kingdom.

The notable mirror test developed by the psychologist Gordon Gallup Jr. is used as an indicator of awareness in animals.

In the experiment, animals are shown an image of themselves reflected via a mirror.

If they recognise the image (often a marking is made on the animal to determine if they identify it), it is deemed they are self-aware.

Interestingly, children fail this test until they are 1 ½–2 years old. Therefore, self-awareness is the bedrock upon which we identify with our beingness.

It allows us to interact with others and our environment through our experience of the world.

Being self-aware not only attributes an awareness of self, it signifies an understanding of one’s personality, i.e. strengths, weaknesses, thoughts, beliefs and motivation.

In contrast, there are many people who sail through life oblivious to their behaviour.

They rarely learn from their mistakes, since they are programmed from early childhood to disregard the impact of their actions.

It might be said their self-awareness is limited because they are unaware of their mental and emotional prejudices.

Some say we spend the first half of our life accumulating knowledge and the second half challenging those long-held beliefs.

Devoid of our capacity for self-examination, it may appear life is acting upon us as we fall victim to the forces of life.

Alternatively, as we let go of our biased thinking, we appreciate that as free-choice agents acting within the container of free will, we are co-creating our life’s circumstances.

Do you agree that many of our choices are not really ours but those passed down to us?

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Awakening the Authentic Self

“There is no greater delight than to be conscious of sincerity on self-examination.” –Mencius

It posits favourably that since we have free will, we should strive to make decisions in line with our best interests.

Our aim should be to uphold the essential virtues of human existence: wisdom, justice, fortitude, self-control, love, positive attitude, integrity and humility.

Authenticity is used to describe the act of living in congruency with our highest nature.

Rather than abide by our external environment, we become aware of our motives as we strive to uphold the human virtues.

Self-examination in this context becomes an expression of knowing oneself.

Fundamentally, our aim at this level is to overcome our mistakes by not inviting them into the future.

Two vital ingredients are required for self-mastery: personal growth and self-awareness.

Like brushing our teeth to keep them clean, attending to our personal growth is exercise for our mental well-being.

Moreover, self-awareness coupled with personal growth is akin to a gardener pulling weeds while simultaneously harvesting new crop.

In time, not only have we cultivated an entire garden devoid of weeds, we have simultaneously allowed our authentic self to emerge.

In my book The Power to Navigate Life, I invite the reader to consider two ideas essential to the mastery of life.

I state that we are either Navigating Life or Parked.

A Parked state is characterised by the metaphysical relationship experienced in a motor vehicle when stationary: stopped, stuck, enclosed, stagnant, not moving and trapped.

Navigating Life denotes a movement of energy: expansive, moving freely, navigating, exploring, discovering and expressive.

These two states represent the metaphysical relationship we have with ourselves at certain times of our life.

As we learn to master life and reclaim our internal state, we move from a Parked state to Navigating Life.

It must be said even while we are in Parked state, it serves as a valuable opportunity for self-reflection so we do not carry those mistakes into the future.

A deep and meaningful life is only worth living if we become self-aware and strive to lead an authentic life.

Through regular self-examination we come to appreciate there are no rights or wrongs, only consequences.

Knowing this, I’d like you to consider ways in which you can examine your life on a regular basis?

Might it be through journaling or keeping a diary?

Some people see a therapist and learn a great deal about themselves through therapy.

Others experience pain and suffering and remain stuck in a cycle of despair, learning little about themselves.

My contention is, in order to reduce the likelihood of experiencing untoward outcomes, we ought to connect with our deepest self which is the essence of our authentic nature.

Call To Action

Do you want to lead a remarkable life? Are you committed to taking action despite your fears and doubts? Have you had enough of not achieving the success you seek? If so, download your FREE copy of my eBook NAVIGATE LIFE right now, and start your amazing journey of greatness today!

Self-empowerment Author, Expert Speaker and Coach. Your Journey Towards Greatness Starts Here: http://www.tonyfahkry.com/

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